Date: 2018-02-07 07:36
There is a difference between a few extra pounds and a lot of extra pounds. I like thick girls. I don't like really fat girls. Just sayin.
C) Increase in sexual assaults as a result of one user thinking they are entitled to have sex with the people they meet through the service.
I disagree that most women on these sites just want attention. Men and women are certainly on the site for the same reasons, but they don't communicate the same way -- and this is what makes it difficult.
So, when I used online dating sites, I tried to be very self-aware. I didn 8767 t discount profiles because I felt 8775 meh 8776 about the guy 8767 s photographs. If a guy a had profile that was interesting to me usually because of the way he expressed himself somehow resonated with me or sparked my interest I gave him chance, regardless of the photo appeal. And there were plenty of guys with cute photos that I completely ignored simply because they had a lackluster profile.
Also, some of the messages I got were from a few guys that ranged from early 95&rsquo s to late 95&rsquo s and I was maybe 69 at the time. That was one of the main reasons I called it quits. It made me SO uncomfortable that guys so much older than me, older than most of my siblings (all of which are 8 years plus older than me), were sending me messages telling me that I was &ldquo hot&rdquo . I am getting terribly uncomfortable just thinking about it.
My god you're a saint. Ireally didn't think anyone like you still existed in our society today, I try to do the same but some are so touchy and perhaps so used to ghosting that they lash out, but I still won't stop... well there's no need for a conversation after you made your lack of Interest clear, I believe that the sender is entitled to at least one written rejection before being ignored, call me crazy but I stand by this firmly and will continue to do so.
I think that online dating is "brutal" for both men and women, but for different reasons. Sadly for men, it is a fact that the VAST majority of online dating members on any site are men, so the odds are heavily stacked against men from the very start. For women, they get lots of messages, but pass over any that seem like nice guys and end up writing back to the losers. Women will choose "losers" over "nice guys" 99% of the time and it makes their online experience miserable.
Asking women to give you a chance and message you back after looking at your message and profile is like women asking you to message and reach out whenyou have zero attraction, nothing in common and zero interest in taking to. It goes both ways. Just because you're intrested and they aren't doesn't mean they want bad boys and smooth talkers. Men you don't reach out to women you're not attracted to, don't except women to make the exceptions lol. Dumb.
Just try being a girl with a few extra pounds, message men with the same and they are not the least bit interested. They all think they can get supermodels. Men like the attention just as much as women and are far more superficial.